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If there's one thing Neil Blumenthal of online eyewear maker Warby Parker hates, it's a prospective employee who acts entitled.
\r\nEntitlement can include a whole slew of destructive behaviors from employees: a 'that's not my job' stance, alienating co-workers with arrogance, or inflexibly defending ideas that don't necessarily contribute to the company's well-being. Ultimately, entitlement degrades collaboration.
\r\nOn the other hand, there's actress, author and comedian Mindy Kaling who portrayed an office worker on television and at one time actually was an office worker. She maintains that you need confidence to do a job well, and the only way to gain confidence is to feel entitled.
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\r\n\r\nConfidence is just entitlement. Entitlement has gotten a bad rap. But entitlement in and of itself isn't so bad. Entitlement is simply the belief that you deserve something. Which is great. The hard part is you'd better make sure you deserve it.
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Jada Graves, writing in U.S. News and World Report, points out that millennial-aged workers are frequently accused of acting entitled. But she also quotes the observation of Lauren Stiller Rilken, who has studied the millennial generation work ethic: \"They don't see themselves as entitled. They see themselves as very hard-working, dedicated and loyal.\"
\r\nDiane Barth, writing in Psychology Today, says that feeling you're entitled, in the sense you have a right to something, can be a reasonable and healthy expectation. Examples include the right to be respected and the right to just reward for a job well done.
\r\nShe cautions, however, that the problems we normally associate with an \"entitled attitude\" arise when a person fails to take into account that other people are entitled respect and cooperation.
\r\nTrent Hamm, writing for The Christian Science Monitor, argues that we all feel entitled at times. \"We feel we have a right to a better position at work because we earned it … we deserve that special treat because we've worked so hard lately.\"
\r\nProblems arise when our sense of entitlement excludes those who have also worked just as hard and perhaps are even more qualified.
\r\nCEO reports that Nasty Girl fashion site founder (and millennial) Sophio Amoruso believes, \"A sense of entitlement is a healthy thing.\" However, she didn't expect anything to be handed to her; she knew what she wanted and knew how to get it.
\r\nYou can feel good about feeling entitled
\r\nWhile a sense of entitlement can be a good thing for individuals, there are some warning signs that an individual may have a skewed perspective. An employee, for instance, may think that their peers, including management, are less competent than they are. They may think that if it weren't for them, the entire company would fall apart and that it is their duty to point out the flaws of their peers.
\r\nAn entitled employee may become conditioned to think that they are going to receive positive reinforcements without having earned it through their work performance. If not confronted, they may have a stronger feeling of being justified in their behavior.
\r\nBasically, entitlement on the job means there is a difference in expectations between direct reports and the management. The primary goal is to close the gap and come to an agreement that is appropriate for everyone involved.
\r\nSome ways to deal with entitlement in the workplace may include the following:
\r\nSet clear expectations. By having clear expectations from day one, it guarantees that all of your employees are on the same page. If you have an employee that is stepping outside of these boundaries, it's important to address the problem immediately.
\r\nDocument your concerns. Anytime you address a problem, it should always be documented in writing and kept in the offending employee's file. This allows you to monitor the situation and keep the employee on track.
\r\nCreate a team environment. It is critical that you create a team environment in the workplace. One way you can do this is by making it a point to celebrate team accomplishments as opposed to singling out the achievements of an individual. A team environment encourages employees to work together and share recognition.
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